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New book reveals ways to reverse negative behavior
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- Date Jun 3, 2012
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Is your child is beginning.
Talking back having tantrums well we have help for check check check -- -- -- times bestselling book teaches parents out there how to reverse your child's negative behavior real quick.
Joining us as psychologist and author.
Of have a new kid by Friday that may not be quick enough for my wife doctor Kevin Lehman thank you sir.
Both my kids already had a timeout it's 9:30 eastern time -- the book is now available to folks in paperback.
You have some simple tips that can help.
With folks like myself finale and the millions out there watching tip number one being authoritative.
Parent where do you draw the line with how authoritative.
Well.
There's of them are being authoritarian.
Which will most of those report page you won't do good to you to do.
-- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- Now parents -- their kids and now we've got the permissive you know.
Brittany and the children -- -- -- Would you turn to Madonna trying to do your homework.
And oh win enrolled Melissa and -- -- of shock not we believe -- we trial that's what not to do what should we do -- turn around so when kids talk back for example.
Or do something.
They just a room that you claim.
You walk in the room say you know what I am very very upset I am but I'm angry turn around and walk away recently him was -- That's gonna recalls of those kids because kids don't like it when mom is unhappy.
That's -- him you also say let reality be the teacher -- that.
Well in the sixteen year old condenses do all my cute you know -- -- -- vehicle blown call in an hour and a half later comes and has a dead.
Connected to -- wanna go shoot some hoops would John.
-- -- focus on but right now I'm out of your life.
In other words god didn't put me on this earth with father Jonathan we're still here.
God didn't put me on this earth.
To be run over by my 16% in general Smart -- kids Tony -- doesn't in his room at 12110.
Year old sister to clean room for him.
When he finds out his sister was even in his room he's not going to be happy and pay for out of his allowance -- and.
It is -- now back to the walking away and that's tip number three you say it once.
And then you walk away so if you say it two or three times.
They know your week that call your bluff they're fighting to not to cooperation.
Whether it's Friday when your wife for your husband or your kid I can script every argument that happens in America and if I tell my kids clean up your toys and I walk away if I come back two hours later.
There's still toys all over the floor.
Yup in our home they'd be -- a big bag in the garage in a dark plays with -- Islamist fighters.
Okay.
It's that's a good tip to this is just keeping that this is not rocket not look at us and -- -- Smart enough to -- 41 books I'm not.
-- five kids with the help my lovely bride and I'm telling you this is simple.
In the testimony 800000 copies sold of those little puppy itself lot of people turn kids -- your -- real quickly.
And read it for a second time you really.
Do you brought your lovely bride with you today and she is wonderful immigrant and 44 years married -- -- -- Consecutive years.
-- -- about a minute thanks so much for coming your viewers appreciate your tips get the -- -- out -- -- back now fantastic -- --