Proactive parenting: How to save your daughter's life
Straight talk from a criminal profiler
- Duration 3:47
- Date Aug 17, 2012
Straight talk from a criminal profiler
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-- everyone wants to keep their children -- their child safe but not everyone knows exactly how to do it understanding the world of psychopaths and criminals is something that takes.
A lot of practice.
Here to explain hard truths about what could keep your -- from becoming a victim of a tragic crime -- Pat Brown criminal profiler and author of how to saying.
Your daughter's life -- -- -- and he's -- -- -- right to it and -- that's what I wanna do is save people's daughters lives because one of the things we're doing today is we tend to think.
-- our kids will be okay.
You know -- kids are Smart.
Well markets may be Smart in certain ways but there.
Quite frankly pretty dumb and all the way isn't it if you look back when -- -- -- teen -- are you and Tommy were Smart connect everything you did was.
You know really wise or did you come back like ten years later it all mom guess what I do when I was sixteen and Catholic -- plus there's so many helicopter.
Appearance these days to do everything in insulate the kids so you've got some tips on how to keep your daughter's -- -- first make sure you're fully aware of the dangers in our every -- world.
Yeah that's something I think we've been stick our heads into the sand a lot of parents aren't aware of what's on the Internet they're not aware of what's on the street or what's -- your own school.
You know like a girl getting into our relationship but just a boyfriend a school can be very very risky we saw what Laura -- and she was.
She was she was murdered by her boyfriend.
She just broke up with him went to meet one more time and she ended up with a throw -- thrown in a pond I mean you know how horrible a -- it was a sweet nice girl.
And she didn't realize that right in her own high school there were dangerous you'll see gotta know your kid million daughter's personality and a weakness that you might be defined in opening caring and that could be detrimental yes you can actually be -- -- a lot of too nice girls get stalkers because a stalker will look forensic.
We'll let me into their world -- not saying Ole Mikey pushing them and a cool let me get near them and just not -- -- my face is they get away from me so what's advised if you have a child like that.
Well you have to -- the stand up for themselves you have to teach him that not everybody is worth being nice to -- you don't have if they don't respect -- you don't have to respect -- and you really have to work with their child on that.
Or you may have a different category may have that.
The girl who likes the wild side you know -- don't didn't pretend that she doesn't you know she does like the wild -- she may be.
Lured into drugs alcohol and and may be the bad voice heard.
So it's not all one size fits all.
Don't allow negativity and you did your god it's like because your mental well being is just as important answer physical.
Yeah this is something you know we worry about what we feed our children we have all kinds of adds about that we know what to put -- your child's -- can -- in -- given diabetes you know at a young age but we don't word it will put into the heads.
And some other stuff going there is so negative these states I mean the videos the television the books they're reading is depressing.
And and and they do this so much I mean you're doing like eight hours a day in your room hiding away looking at negative stuff for it being -- negative conversations.
Instead of getting those positive things and so you could be the gatekeeper for your daughter I mean you're the parent you have to decide this is unhealthy for my daughter.
-- continent now so why now to write this book do you think that this kind of a problem is on the rise well I think we're seeing a lot of it on the -- well we love freedom in this country -- we do as well as of as young when we have a love for him that's a good thing coming out like that.
But that also means our daughters out there in a world that's pretty scary we we know that for example date rape is on the rise -- care -- that all the time.
What people don't realize it's almost no date -- goes to court because you can't prove it he said she said.
But a -- drug drinking and or any of these bad situation so the folks talks -- all kinds of situations stalkers rapists.
Serial killers bad boyfriends and race relations it's even in your own home.
-- -- just -- -- thought it might get drawn into like prostitution which has gotten worse as well little boy that's a whole other book yes -- you know there have -- How to save your daughter's life pat Bradley thank you thank you very much.