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Still dreaming of ex-wives: Normal or Nuts?

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    Dr. Keith Ablow weighs in

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My husband asks me this every day pretty normal or -- What do you say to it depends on the day from then on -- some -- to questioner naslund -- wild and it's a question we asked doctor Keith after the.

Just because he went to college joining us right now is the the guys answers emails text keep download -- to keep.

Welcome first thing -- -- get the purple time I know I feel bad at all until I feel you need to kiss up to Steve by dressing like okay.

Which I gotta get you an -- to an analysis for that -- -- start with email number one Steve.

It reads this way I was married to the I was -- the first time for seventeen years again a second time for twelve years once a month or so I have dreams that involve one.

Where the other on my exes -- happy twelve your relationships now with my fiance but I never -- dreams about her.

-- -- -- What could be more.

Normal thank you normal then to have dreams of -- people.

An intimate with for that long -- -- -- no reason.

That you have that length of time with these two women know of course -- Nothing wrong with -- -- relationship it does not mean that any and all you really know this guy is normal.

Because he hasn't -- the third time.

He says he's got a fiance twelve years so we're gonna give them a bill a health here and say he's OK guess and I normally have these dreams is okay.

Not gonna have that can't -- after she figures out who she is because it won't be too tough for -- who has been there in those two times and a fiancee for twelve year you know WR.

There you go well in any case -- dream about her too if you leave -- but that's normal it's artificial to have this.

You -- wall built.

Between you and someone with whom you were that close I used email number 211 awful fear of dogs now my son wanted poppy.

My husband thinks will help me overcome my fear but I'm too petrified of my normal -- -- This is in the sense that most puppies are not.

Killers right it's not normal it's it's a little -- -- -- the -- obsessive compulsive.

Disorder or a phobia.

And so what you gotta do is get down to the roots of why did this happen did you have a bad experience past with a -- bite marks on your aorta.

Who knows -- like yeah that'll do it.

But the bottom line is get to the bottom of why is this happening don't start with having a dog in the house maybe go -- a shelter.

For two minutes rate exposure therapy is great but I don't know if you want to live.

With the exposure therapy right off the bat our advice -- -- number three.

I have high school -- coming up -- at school dance coming up really have no interest in going activists like all school functions.

I'd rather stay home and read a good book does this make me not so.

Did not -- normal listen.

Not everybody's the -- out of -- they wanted.

-- -- -- Read the night away it's okay you may yet -- -- in the library to date look at that that's.

Be happy story so don't feel the pressure to do something you know to -- -- you feel you're missing out of how many times that I told you that.

Figure out every night and you don't need to be right OK you can be home you have a family that you were on when a club -- Sorry about confidentiality.

-- materials wanna drive this is unbelievable in front of everybody.

You're part of my third the only got a question for -- TV analyst for -- -- -- come in next week in -- -- sort of figure much yet watch him Gloria we Google thanks.