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Part two now of our series on what's known as the hook up culture on college campuses sex with no attachments which some psychologists say.
Has largely replaced dating on a lot of campuses -- -- that might sound great to some psychologists say that hooking up.
Can be not quite as care free as it sounds we got together a group of college students here in our studios talk to them.
They spoke bluntly and bravely about the routine of having sex first and then.
May -- get to know each other sometime after what they said was very revealing watch.
Lake this kind of lifestyle or do you wish it was different.
I'm and I happy about it.
I just who has though people are an -- place thanks in -- Sony -- to times.
Think -- -- -- -- know each other anymore satellite that's pretty much dead so is the idea that that's not happening that dating his dad.
As -- sad is that true or not -- though I green that in mind.
You might perceive that in stat I don't think that's necessarily I I think sometimes week on -- hierarchy of well it sex hos to mean something to you ill wind if it doesn't -- and you're just -- half sacks.
That's OK he does anybody feel like -- They're little like Maher romance they would like to be courted here right now are silent thought I had.
You know I being active romance is still damp I think it's a little dying out -- down.
-- -- -- -- -- -- -- And I think Huckabee can't hide the -- the next day after this happens and you see that person on campus are you supposed to not.
You're supposed to just be cool about it and pretend like you don't really know each other.
If you run into someone that you did sleep with -- before you're able to talk to them as though you're still friends.
There can be that romantic level to it but we are -- -- -- sexually liberated it's easy to scrutinize us we kind of have this like window into our lifestyles.
Because we have obviously media new media at least for people look at and see kind of what we're doing what would you say -- -- -- She's going to college about.
All of that's what would you advise her -- will want to tell her about how -- -- -- is -- she is worth more again.
Movies I am I'm attrition in about I was says that women are more aware of -- movies how people feel.
Happy with the way things are on campus today Beijing has yet -- air completely fact that our.
And and how many -- out -- think it.
They're not happy with it -- and back -- the whole romance ideally is a preconceived idea from movies like to know floats.
-- remember like movies like that -- you watch them used to make the only thing I want that -- -- if you if you hoped to.
At some point you know fall madly in love and get married and have a you know have a long life on marriage no matter.
Hello I'm excited -- you know when you meet that her senate are you gonna wanna know like what there college life was like and will it matter TO.
I think that whoever I'm with has had the right to have sex -- whoever they -- and see before me.
If you're getting with a lot of style different people it intends to drive new -- personally and I feel like a lot of other people as well I don't.
Now want to know if it's -- high number and Anderson as long as there.
Really dedicated in me and they're not like a cheater anything's an answer on managed.
So my next guest is a mom and she's a Princeton -- she wrote a controversial piece back in March that urged women to try to.
Find their husbands while they -- -- -- best.
Susan -- writes the cornerstone of your future and happiness will be an -- strongly linked.
To the man that you married and you will never again have this concentration of men support were any of you know then it was Amy on campus isn't -- is now.
That that a lot of people say and us.
I kept my my husband -- on campus that's not what this is about wells thought we could be a long way away for that compared of these out.
Well that's not an Iowa it's not it's not -- a long way from that I think that if it would be very wise for young women on college campuses today to think about.
Fulfilling all their life's dreams their personal happiness with the same commitment as they well look to fulfill the professional happy announced and it's tragic I think that.
Hook ups and casual sex on college campuses have become the that -- movie if it feels like it's its own dreadful alternative that's been crafted out of the actions of cherished institutions that the women's.
And -- you it's nice and it -- -- under the ground balls are so focused on an arrest initials focus on their work.
That they say like not a time for our relationship right now that's not a priority for me.
Is something you know has feminism which had so many great quality is -- -- so many women the right is these young women do not seen in power analysts point.
All well it can't possibly be good for them hooking up and casual sex just can't be good for a woman's -- her head.
Heard -- or her body.
And we need to remind you John wetlands that they deserve better than -- they should hold up for better than us.
You know and this is not even good -- have a conversation about cows and free milk.
You did and I didn't say don't let it out -- we don't know that analogy exactly but I think that the even taking -- the issue relative morality of casual sex out of the equation.
We need to remind young women there is something that -- dating and courtship and marriage and motherhood.
These are all wonder value as -- valuable and wonderful and they should.
Absolutely yeah isn't in a very positive matter and not at all feel like social deviates from -- I wanna be married.
I want something more than casual sex I want our commitment and my relations.
There's a lot of people think and and talking and -- so hopefully did this series and our discussions with these kids thank you very much thank you mark it.
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