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They ladies looking for mister right well listen up if it looks like men are boycotting marriage marriage among other things because they -- -- Yes they are hard according to a study.
The importance of marriage throughout the years has got up for women to 37%.
And down for men to 29%.
Peter explain why is forensic psychologist and author men on strike why men are boycotting marriage fatherhood and the American dream and why it matters.
Is doctor Helen Smith good morning -- thank you joining us thank.
-- so much for having me on.
Actually it's it's 37%.
Of all women want that is the most important thing in their life they wanna get married -- -- and have fallen at the amount of -- -- wanna get married has fallen down to about 29%.
So the discrepancy between those men who who don't wanna get married in the women who do -- -- -- news assist fuel men available to.
And who do you think I have to look at the laws that happen in marriage do you think that that has a lot to do with white men don't want to get married that's what.
Some air strike commander telling me I I talk to men across the United States on my blog -- amends rights law and I've worked with mantra for twenty years my private practice.
And what I found is that men say that if the legal ramifications they don't have any legal rights and marriage anymore.
There's something called -- sure what it is is used to men held -- -- get all the cards in marriage and they held the legal rights now women do.
And if you look at it man when they get divorced they only -- -- -- -- 10% of the time either the -- GL if the lowest ticket -- -- that's not your child.
Most states say you still have to pay you find out three years later your three year old is -- -- you still have to pay in most day.
So it makes you wonder if there's a change in a -- that this would change men's attitudes or do you think he just like the freedom.
I mentioned it is not enough anymore -- that two of the men gives with a regulated to.
That exactly that's -- -- -- related to an there's a really interesting article called the decline -- space that replicate it on a blog and it talked about how men don't have any space anymore he thought the public's fear I mean we we've sort of -- you know what.
-- only carriers are off limits you can't do that anymore that's not legal and we don't like it.
And men are put in the dirty is a part -- that counts the basement the garage sending serving -- -- but sometimes I just -- there to get -- or maybe it tend to like it right yeah I think I really can't stand and I don't know if you -- how you feel about this being a man but.
The windy which rate -- and husbands.
Even commercials it always looks like there stupid are idiots and it's terrible it's terrible and they found -- 15%.
Jim MacNamara -- -- professor he found its its members in a time.
-- -- portrayed in the media and in a negative light -- with things Petit falls perverts.
-- what message is that sending to people across the United States and command.
-- -- -- you -- some tips about what they can do to fight back for example stop letting women control the dialogue and the most important yes well women now in effect here I am a woman at least you're a man and two women are talking about a bit.
Women control dialogue mostly articles and think about gender are written by women -- their written by men who have a feminist bent -- -- to stand up and say you know what.
I'm gonna ride about a I'm gonna talk about it with being quiet you just discuss his stop laughing when men are shown his bumbling idiots like teen queens in the -- -- which he did speak to watch even though these guys are funny.
All right what about pre -- well maybe this could be worked out a pre nup before you get married -- it can be -- -- that does work and forcefully pre nup don't always work -- you have to have a lot of money to make sure they do in my in my pre nup there's no one can lots of room for him so that's I put that in guess that if you do married eighteen -- individuality.
Yes I'm factories with your wife or girlfriend a lot of men are afraid they're afraid of conflict and don't do well confident that you need to speak up and be calm.
Because you love this person you want to do right thank you need to set boundaries and talk to the person about what you.
-- won't make fat doctor announcement you -- gonna -- great been on strike thanks much for the research and thanks for the vote of confidence I have.
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